We normally keep on running from one relationship to another but we always take little time to figure out why we had to breakup but these little things that lead to breakups are important.
Some attitudes seems to be normal by the doer, but its irritating to the other party, here are some of the common attitudes that can leads to breakups which many people don’t know:
1. Choking Your Partner With Love
No matter how in-love you both might be, the moment one is choking the other with too much love, it fizzles out the love of the other partner leading his or her love to depreciate. Try to always make it balance or else you just might scare your partner away.
When you show signs of desperation in your relationship, like trying to trap the person to yourself through marriage. This scares hell out of some people, especially if your partner aint ready to be hooked up or where the relationship its still at its early stage, dont talk about marriage except if you are both desperate about it.
3. The selfish type.
As a guy if you are the stingy type and have never cared about your Girlfriend’s finance, neither have you bought her any gifts,then i feel sorry for you.
No girl wants akiddo as a boyfriend or someone who talks and does things like a kid! No no…she will definitely dump your as$!
5. Mode of dressing:
If your mode of dressing is really horrible, please do something about it fast!
Dirty finger nails and toes also leads to breakups in relationships.
7. Flirting :
Flirting might be fun, and might seem not strong enough to dissolve a relationship. The truth is, it can!
8. Too Demanding:
You want this, you want that, you want all…take a chill pill please, your partner would definitely get tired of you someday.
When you are too arrogant,too violent, too pushy, tooinsultive, always engaging in one fight or the other…this is a big turnoff!
Respect your partner’sdecision always, don’t always contradict what your partner is bringing to the table, even if you don’t want it, there are one million ways in making him/her know and not sounding rude and still respect their ideas.
These are eye opener, pick yours and make amend.